Comments on: Back to the drawing board http://jacquiboydalden.wordpress.com/2009/07/07/back-to-the-drawing-board-2/ sometimes I vent, sometimes I don't. Just an ordinary person trying to do the best for her family Fri, 18 Dec 2009 01:08:29 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Middle Child http://jacquiboydalden.wordpress.com/2009/07/07/back-to-the-drawing-board-2/#comment-268 Middle Child Wed, 15 Jul 2009 23:22:37 +0000 http://jacquiboydalden.wordpress.com/?p=543#comment-268 I never had Bulimea but always thought I was on the edge of being fat and obsessed about food. Now i seldom think about it and just eat sensibly. i accept myself as i am fullstop and don helped there ebcause he loved me no matter what. Sad that we need others to help with self esteem. I see my sister with two little girls and a boy and everyone comments what a good healthy eater the boy is...but the same comments are never made in respect to the girls...and she obsesses about their eating...they are too thin...damage is being done...we shoudl not treat the boys and gorls like this. He is allowed to be a healthy stocky wild little thing who eats with both hands. The girls have always had it impressed upon them how bad butter and fat is...makes me sick to see this but can't say anything... my sister was a sports teacher as well and should know better. I never had Bulimea but always thought I was on the edge of being fat and obsessed about food. Now i seldom think about it and just eat sensibly. i accept myself as i am fullstop and don helped there ebcause he loved me no matter what. Sad that we need others to help with self esteem.

I see my sister with two little girls and a boy and everyone comments what a good healthy eater the boy is…but the same comments are never made in respect to the girls…and she obsesses about their eating…they are too thin…damage is being done…we shoudl not treat the boys and gorls like this. He is allowed to be a healthy stocky wild little thing who eats with both hands. The girls have always had it impressed upon them how bad butter and fat is…makes me sick to see this but can’t say anything… my sister was a sports teacher as well and should know better.

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